Your first look on your wedding day—let’s talk about why it’s an absolute game-changer! If you’re on the fence about this tradition, I’m here to share why it could add such a romantic touch to your big day and actually make things smoother for you both!
The First Look Explained | Milwaukee and Lake Geneva Wedding Photographer
First things first, let me clear this up: I never want any couple to feel pressured into doing a first look. It’s all about what feels right for you! But hey, I can’t help but rave about it because guess what? About 90% of my couples have gone for it and ended up loving every moment!
I’ve gushed about “First Looks” so much on my blog because they truly are incredible! Yet, I get it—some folks worry it’s too non-traditional. I used to think the same for my own wedding! I wanted that classic aisle moment where Ben would be floored seeing me for the first time. Who wouldn’t want that, right? But here’s the magic: We actually did both! We shared a sweet, private first look, and let me tell you, Ben still teared up when I walked down that aisle. It was a moment I’ll cherish forever—and our first look only added to the magic!
After photographing over 250 weddings, here’s my take: Every bride wants her groom to be blown away when he sees her. The worry, though, is that seeing each other beforehand might diminish that “wow” factor during the ceremony. But trust me, it’s quite the opposite! Wedding days can get intense—everyone’s looking their best, nerves are buzzing. The groom, bless him, might be feeling the pressure big-time.
But imagine this: Before the chaos of the ceremony, you two steal away to a quiet spot. No audience, just you two. He turns around and sees you, his breath catches, and you have that moment. It’s not rushed, it’s not pressured—it’s just pure, intimate joy. And guess what? Those nerves? They melt away, leaving room for genuine, heartfelt emotions to shine through.
Without that first look, it’s a whirlwind. The groom waits, nerves build, and when he finally sees you, it’s amazing but also a bit overwhelming with all eyes on him. With a first look, you set the pace. You take your time with romantic portraits, just the two of you and your photographer capturing every grin and embrace without any rush or distractions.
And here’s the best part: By the time the ceremony rolls around, you’re both relaxed, ready to enjoy every moment. There’s no frantic rush, no checking the clock—it’s just you, your love, and the joy of your day unfolding beautifully.
So, let me clarify—I never insist on a first look! I used to worry about suggesting it, not wanting to push anyone out of their comfort zone. But seeing how it enhances weddings time after time, I share it because I want every couple to have the most incredible experience possible!
If you’re not sold on a first look, no worries at all! Let’s chat about crafting a timeline that keeps your day stress-free and full of joy, whether you choose a first look or not. Your wedding day should be everything you’ve dreamed of—let’s make sure it’s perfect for you!
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